I was at a women’s VFL football match a few weeks ago – the last round of the year. The Team I was following had no chance of making the top 4 for a finals berth – their season was all but over. My daughter has played with her team for nearly 10 years, having chosen the team based on how she felt when she first trained with them (i.e. team culture). When she was looking at which team to join, there were 2 geographically close teams – she trained with one for 2 weeks but did not feel included…she chose the other and joined them, 120 games or so ago now.